We moved
We moved out of our foster homes to live with dad. We start a new school this semester and we are on a trial run living here. We have to continue therapy and if things slip up like before then other actions can happen.
I got some news yesterday morning that my other gf some might know here told me she's pregnant. Its mine cuz she said I'm the only guy she's had sex with outside of her abuse. I'm going to be a dad.
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Congratulations on the baby but dude... you're going to have it out for you. I kinda co-parent my brother (only because I want to) and he's a big handful. We are here for you whenever you need it.
Don't touch your sister and you'll be just fine. Keep your pony in the barn. This is what happens when you let it run the field.
I'm not doing anything with Olivia. I was just a little messed up back then.
You have a tough road ahead of you, assuming you're the father. A baby is a lifelong responsibility.
If you haven't already, please tell your dad that Ava is pregnant. He can help you navigate through paternity testing, as well as the child support/custody process (if you're found to be the father). Be aware that if you sign the birth certificate or an acknowledgment of paternity form, you become the legal father. This means that you are legally obligated to financially support Ava's baby, even if you're not the biological father.
You will also want to start looking for a part-time job. Babies are extremely expensive, and this isn't Ava's responsibility alone. She will need your help, and that starts with her first visits to the doctor during her pregnancy.
As the stress of becoming a father builds, you may struggle more with regards to Olivia. Just be aware of that, and please talk with your therapist if you notice any of those old feelings returning.
Your life just changed, in a big way. Whether you feel ready or not, you now have adult responsibilities. As Chas said, we're here for you.
I don't think I'll do anything to Olivia. I finally got her back without unsupervised weekend visits and I can't fuck that up. I believe Ava. I'll see what my dad says. I'm willing to do anything to be this baby's dad. I haven't told Paige yet. I dont want to bother her with this at work. She's open to having Ava in my life so I hope she's cool with this.
Please be careful living with Olivia, Don't think isn't good enough! keep your distance or you may never see her again!! You don't want to go through all that again and it would mess her up really bad!!!
Sorry about the baby , it's NOT going to be easy at your age, babies are expensive and a lot of responsibility, make sure that it is your's first and foremost.
I'm willing to do anything for this baby.