We have to stop meeting like this.

OK so the hubs and I have talked at length. I get why he decided to talk to her. We got a lot out in the open. I feel better, way better, its been 2 week of pretending that I don't have an issue with him. Now that we have been open together and I have answers, ones I was ok with and some that hurt but at least I got the truth. I think we may be on the way to a better marriage.
The thing with getting married when you are 18 is that your so damn young you don't know better. You aren't the same person at 21 as you were at 18 and not the same at 25 as you were when you were 21. Thing is I feel I matured way faster because of motherhood and necessity. Then even faster because of my FM. I knew at 26 I wouldn't be able to handle the way we were I was too damn tired to fight and the fight made the pain worse.
Finally at 30 the hubs as decided its time to stop acting like a kid and fighting me like he is a child. He says he doesn't know why he intentionally did the opposite of my request, but he says he sees the issue with it. He wants us to be more loving, and talk and be honest with me.
I don't know. We shall see. He knows this is the last straw for me. I am leery of his claims but I will give him this last chance.
 
PS, its 10:36 and I am still not hungry. My fajita salad was filling and delish. >:)