We don' talk anymore
I was reading another members journal about the situation with his spouse. They were trying to make it work after she had an affair.
He was detailing the conversation when, the realization hit me hard that not only do we(me and stbxh) not talk anymore, we probably never will again! There will be brief conversations about our children but, that'll be it...
He was detailing the conversation when, the realization hit me hard that not only do we(me and stbxh) not talk anymore, we probably never will again! There will be brief conversations about our children but, that'll be it...
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And for that you should be grateful. From what you\'ve written your stbx is dishonest. Not talking to him means he wont have the opportunity to lie to you anymore.Talking to you is a privilege he does not deserve. Don\'t get me wrong. I certainly understand the loneliness that comes with parting company with your spouse. I just made lunch and thought about the fact that my husband and I will never have a meal together again. It\'s sad but it also means I\'ll be free to lunch with someone more deserving. You will find better company too.
You\'re right Missy. It\'s just one of those things I hadn\'t thought about. Same with lunch and many other things. I\'ve been so overwhelmed with feeling lonely, surviving this and caring for my children that I just didn\'t think about the things we\'ll never do together again. I appreciate your comments, sometimes I need a wake up call. Here\'s to finding better company!