War of the Roses, of the Joneses, of the Smiths, of the ...
Life... when unexpected turns make a difference in the standard routine.
War of the Roses is a great movie from 1989 that shows clearly that passionate love that once was can and does change. It doesn't have to be because of another person, a new affair or strong reasons such as abuse. Relationships simply change and there is no law or chemistry that guarantees the eternal devotion that happens between two people.
We can make goals, we can plan, but there is nothing in our future that will state the same will remain. We lift, we fall, we grow and we shrink. Like an accordion of some sort, when played properly can bring joy and dancers. Depending on who holds the piece and presses the buttons, moving the instrument to a stretch or folding it tight, the joy could turn into a scream.
I believe in happiness. Even if momentary events that push emotions from one day to the next, giving hope for better days when there is no good music.
War of the Roses is a great movie from 1989 that shows clearly that passionate love that once was can and does change. It doesn't have to be because of another person, a new affair or strong reasons such as abuse. Relationships simply change and there is no law or chemistry that guarantees the eternal devotion that happens between two people.
We can make goals, we can plan, but there is nothing in our future that will state the same will remain. We lift, we fall, we grow and we shrink. Like an accordion of some sort, when played properly can bring joy and dancers. Depending on who holds the piece and presses the buttons, moving the instrument to a stretch or folding it tight, the joy could turn into a scream.
I believe in happiness. Even if momentary events that push emotions from one day to the next, giving hope for better days when there is no good music.
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Very profound. I like that movie \"War of the Roses\". Thanks for a very interesting read :)
\"Life... when unexpected turns make a difference in the standard routine.\"
You seem to be very good at adapting to these unexpected turns....when a family member is in need, you respond. Maybe it would be good for you to have a crisis that you can\'t handle so well? Maybe it would make you think outside of your own box to have a situation that doesn\'t fit with your normal reactions.
I think we all have a tendency to fall into routines that work well for us. But just because something works....doesn\'t mean it\'s what\'s best or even what\'s right. Sometimes you hear a phrase that makes you think, or something happens to make you re-examine your life....and you realize that changes need to be made.
Whether it be small changes to enhance communication, or huge life-altering changes that will leave chaos and carnage in the wake. Listen and watch for clues. Look at those goals you may have made....are they really what\'s best for you?
Can you change them to make things better?
It\'s time for you to be the accordian player, and not just the music that comes out.