Waiting.....Just Wondering

After a couple months I finally talked my husband into doing the test.  Now we are in the waiting period of getting his results. Then it is onto the next adventure after ttc naturally with Metformin, Provera, and Fermera.  Also having surgery to have a cyst removed.

I am just wondering what have you done to keep from getting your hopes up. My husband and I have been ttc for a little over 2 years and still nothing. I am staying strong as much as possible, however when I talk to my friends they have no idea what we are going through.  I keep thinking its going to happen and month after month it never does, and it breaks my heart more and more.  I am to the point of giving up.  I feel like my husband has already given up and is just doing it for me.  

Any advice would be wonderful.

Thank you for reading :D