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I WAS READING SOME OF THE DISCUSSIONS ON HERE AND REALLY LOST MY TEMPER!!!  FIRST OFF, WHAT RIGHT DOES ANY PERSON HAVE TO RUN AROUND ON THEIR SPOUSE?  YEA, THERE MAY BE EXCEPTIONAL REASONS, LIKE ABUSE ,   BUT PEOPLE DON'T WAIT FOR THOSE !!! I'M TALKING ABOUT RUNNING AROUND ON THOSE WHO LOVE YOU.   THIS IS THE THING,   THERE IS A CODE,,,THERE ONCE WAS A CODE,   IF HE OR SHE IS MARRIED,  LEAVE THEM ALONE !!!!!      DON'T ACCEPT THEIR ADVANCES AND DON'T , FOR ANY REASON, MAKE ADVANCES ON THEM.  I'VE ALWAYS BEEN TAUGHT THAT IF SOMEONE ASKES FOR FORGIVENESS, YOU HAVE TO FORGIVE,  HOW DO YOU FORGIVE SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN'T UNDERSTAND? AND ARE YOU SUPPOSE TO KEEP FORGIVING, IF THEY KEEP DOING THE SAME THING?  AND WHY THE HELL DOES SOME WHORE OR WHOREHOPPER COME ALONG AND START MAKING ADVANCES ON A MARRIED PERSON?  I CALL THEM THAT, BECAUSE A DECENT PERSON WOULDN'T DO IT. FOR THE SIMPLE REASON THAT "THEY ARE MARRIED!"    I JUST DON'T THINK THAT A WOMAN SHOULD "THINK" SHE'S IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER MAN AND JUMP IN THE SACK WITH HIM JUST BECAUSE HE GIVES HER COMPLIMENTS AND MAKES HER FEEL GOOD!!!   IF SHE LEAVES HER HUSBAND FOR  THE OM,  IT WON'T BE LONG BEFORE HE'S  THE SAME OLD,SAME OLD, JUST LIKE THE HUSBAND WAS.  THING IS , IT CAN'T STAY NEW FOREVER,,,,MARRIAGE IS RESPONSIBILITY, TRUST, PARTNERSHIP, FRIENDSHIP, AND LOVE,  YOU CAN'T BAIL OUT JUST BECAUSE THE LOVE GOT LOST IN THE RESPONSIBILITY!!!  THE LOVE'S STILL THERE!!!       JUST T-A-L-K  ABOUT IT!!!!       I CAN'T FEEL SORRY FOR AN INDIVIDUAL, EVEN THOUGH THEY GIVE YOU ALL THE REASONS WHY THEY DID IT..... I SEE ON HERE WHERE THE OW, OR OM  SAY "I'M SO SORRY I DID IT.  I DON'T BUY THAT.  IF THEY LOVED THEIR SPOUSE, THAT LOVE WOULDN'T HAVE ALLOWED THEM TO  RUN TO ANOTHER, IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!.  PERIOD.