Update #2
This totally sucks! My uncle is sooo much worse! Now, because of the mild heart attack, his heart is in failure. And because of the Hepatitis C... both his kidneys and his liver are failing. The dr's are now watching him on a critical care basis... 24/7.
I don't understand why this is happening. And, my mom is taking all of this really hard! I just want to cry and scream!!!
I don't understand why this is happening. And, my mom is taking all of this really hard! I just want to cry and scream!!!
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Hugs for you jamie.
big hugs and lots of prayers!
Jammie: I realize how difficult this all is on you. My Dad passed away due to a heart attack when I was 17years old...and it scared my heart forever. Yes, your Momma is going to be upset, this is her brother, right? So, yeah. Honey, people get sick, there isn\'t anything we can do for things that are out of OUR control. Do you believe in prayer? Much comfort can come from speaking to God, or what ever higher power you might believe in. It doesn\'t always FIX things the way we want...but it can give us the strength and the power to help others who NEED our love and support...your Momma needs you now. You need her also for your fear, and heartache. You both could be a great comfort for one another. I am very sorry for your Uncle that he has become so ill. To often we have to accept that what is going to be...is, and there is nothing we can do, except be the best person we can be so that it reflects right back on the person who inspired us, or loved us, or helped us in the past. I know you love your Uncle. Be strong, cry when you need to, keep your self healthy, and give all the love you can to your Momma. Love given is returned 10 fold, even if it\'s not from the one you have given the love to, love will find you...and be returned. Okay, enough from me. My opinions. I feel your pain and I hope in some small way, I have said something that will help you deal with this event in your lives. GOD bless you and keep you, your not alone! Sha