update on my coworker Chris
Hi everyone,
My coworker Chris has come back to work after losing her second brother to a heart anomaly. I wanted to give you an update. She is doing pretty well. She is able to talk, cry & express her grief. She & her mom Jean are going away for the weekend & I will call Jean next week & tell her about DS & FMO. I also have some books that others gave me that were very helpful for them if she & Chris want to read them. Chris reports that her mom is doing fairly well, but of course wonders how she could have"let this happen?"
I know I felt responsible for Eddie's passing in that I couldn't process how I as his mom didn't know he was sick. I blamed myself & reviewed everything I had said & done from the time of his conception to try to make sense of it. But then I realized I will never make sense out of a seemingly healthy 37 year old man just passing in his sleep. I guess for me, in realizing I can't make sense of it, I let go of the blame I was putting on myself. The beginning of some healing anyway.
Love and peace to all. Thank you for your support and prayers for me and this grieving family.
My coworker Chris has come back to work after losing her second brother to a heart anomaly. I wanted to give you an update. She is doing pretty well. She is able to talk, cry & express her grief. She & her mom Jean are going away for the weekend & I will call Jean next week & tell her about DS & FMO. I also have some books that others gave me that were very helpful for them if she & Chris want to read them. Chris reports that her mom is doing fairly well, but of course wonders how she could have"let this happen?"
I know I felt responsible for Eddie's passing in that I couldn't process how I as his mom didn't know he was sick. I blamed myself & reviewed everything I had said & done from the time of his conception to try to make sense of it. But then I realized I will never make sense out of a seemingly healthy 37 year old man just passing in his sleep. I guess for me, in realizing I can't make sense of it, I let go of the blame I was putting on myself. The beginning of some healing anyway.
Love and peace to all. Thank you for your support and prayers for me and this grieving family.
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