Update on my Ex

My previous journal entry stated her answer that she did not want to see me.  My daughter just called me and the Doctor came in to give her the results of the bone scan they did this afternoon.. She has bone Cancer.  They are now going to try to find the source and how far advanced it is but, I know few who have ever survived this.  My daughter is trying to be strong but, she broke down and was crying.  My ex's husband died 2 months ago. My ex will be 63 next month.
Regardless of what she did to me, I forgave her years ago but, she has never forgiven me and still hates me.  To see her suffer and die a death with bone cancer bothers me.  I told my daughter I was very very sorry for her and also for my ex.  We will keep her on my church prayer list and leave the rest to God.
I spent 7 hours at the hospital today with my sister and they are going to operate on her tomorrow afternoon for Gall Bladder.  My sister is 76 and has been sick for 6 months.  She has lost down to less than 100 lbs. now.  I hope this gets her back on her feet.  Her husband is blind in one eye and can't hear well.  They get little or no help from their grown children so, it always up to me, "Big Brother," to help them.