Update...ch ch ch changes!
February 3- I inform my husband the 3rd time that I am unhappy in the relationship and am planning to leave him. He tries to solve things "Fix me!" but it is all too little too later.
February 9 - Unfortunately on his birthday I inform Mike that I am moving out on his birthday. Our apartment requires 20 days notice so that I have to tell him this early.
February 9-13 -- he gets increasingly verbal abusive accusing me of cheating with our FEMALE roommate, being a liar, telling me if I was a man he'd hit me and so forth. Meanwhile finances are bad enough we will be evicted eventually and have the truck repossessed. Verbal abuse gets so bad that Mom volunteers to move me out early than the planned 25th and I agree.
February 13 - I move out much to Mike's anger. Thank goodness for my stepdad. Finally break down at home while holding the dog.
February 13-25 -- Go thru all the things moved out of the house to sort out Mike's things and my roommate Amanda's things. Some of it with much tears. Amazing how little some things can matter to u after this situation.
February 25 - back to Kent to clean the apartment and take Mike's and Amanda's things to them. Mike and his relatives do not help clean at all. They just move Mike out. Townhouse has turned into a pigsty in the two weeks since I have been gone.
Current -- Living with my parents and job searching. Talk about humbling! Have met with both divorce and bankruptcy lawyers. Going thru with both. Fibrowise...on Celexa not Cymbalta right now. My rheumatologist wouldn't see me without insurance. Going to a low income clinic at the end of the week, hoping to get on a prescripiton assistance program for the cymbalta thru them. Cymbalta gives me such better coverage of my symptoms!
February 9 - Unfortunately on his birthday I inform Mike that I am moving out on his birthday. Our apartment requires 20 days notice so that I have to tell him this early.
February 9-13 -- he gets increasingly verbal abusive accusing me of cheating with our FEMALE roommate, being a liar, telling me if I was a man he'd hit me and so forth. Meanwhile finances are bad enough we will be evicted eventually and have the truck repossessed. Verbal abuse gets so bad that Mom volunteers to move me out early than the planned 25th and I agree.
February 13 - I move out much to Mike's anger. Thank goodness for my stepdad. Finally break down at home while holding the dog.
February 13-25 -- Go thru all the things moved out of the house to sort out Mike's things and my roommate Amanda's things. Some of it with much tears. Amazing how little some things can matter to u after this situation.
February 25 - back to Kent to clean the apartment and take Mike's and Amanda's things to them. Mike and his relatives do not help clean at all. They just move Mike out. Townhouse has turned into a pigsty in the two weeks since I have been gone.
Current -- Living with my parents and job searching. Talk about humbling! Have met with both divorce and bankruptcy lawyers. Going thru with both. Fibrowise...on Celexa not Cymbalta right now. My rheumatologist wouldn't see me without insurance. Going to a low income clinic at the end of the week, hoping to get on a prescripiton assistance program for the cymbalta thru them. Cymbalta gives me such better coverage of my symptoms!
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Wishing you strength and luck! Abby
It sounds like you are doing what you need to do, and you have valuable support in your parents. You have a plan, you\'re following through, and you\'re making your life BETTER. You can do this! *HUGS*
I\'m sorry things have been going so rough. Sure do hope things get better for you from here on out.
I\'m sorry I was off line and couldn\'t be with you through all that, I hope you find that the less stress will help you feel better, I\'ve been there so I know how hard and horrible it all was and still will be for a whil, may your future be brighter, love, J