Update and People really don't care

I had my ultrasound yesterday and got to see my doctor.  There was a little yoke sac measuring just right and the hemotoma was still there.  This is called a subchorionic hemotoma, thank you, elijah4  My dr didn't seem at all concerned and I am now on pelvic rest.  Of course I googled and found that it can disappear, stay and cause no damage, or the worse circumstance it can cause placenta abruption later on.  They are very common and usually nothing to be worried about.  Well I am trying but I keep thinking the worse.   I go back a week from tomorrow. 
So I was on bedrest from thurs-mon and already had friday off for my aunt's funeral.  She just passed from ALS, a terrible disease.  Anyway I couldn't go to the funeral so my boss took my bereavement day! wtf  I have no vacation days left, I just took them when I didn't feel well and for anniversaries.  Really, you can't just maybe be kind for once?  I did not know you had to attend a service to get a bereavement day.  This shouldn't bother me this much but it does.  I also had a note that said why I was on bed rest and he didn't bother to read it.  I said I was going to need some understanding the next couple of months and he didn't know what I was talking about.  I asked the hr lady to see the note again because she said it didn't say why, well it was right there.  So good to know that people care so much about me to take 2 seconds to read past "she's on bedrest," after what has happened to me.  They pretend to care, but really are so glad it is not them.  No one gets it.  Now I need to let this go and get happy for my rainbow.  Hope everyone is doing as well as possible ♥ Pamela