Unemployed and Frustrated

I decided to start using this wonderful group as my outlet. As a brief history - I'm 27 years old, I started working since I was 14, paid my own way through college and graduated with two bachelors degrees, Math and Graphic Design. I got a job right out of college using my Math Degree (DECENT Paying Job for the area), and worked there for 5 years. I made is through the recession, but then towards the end of 2012 they cut government funding and I was furloughed. My husband and I started trying for kids a few months before I was furloughed. At that point, since I have worked for 12+ years, and paid into unemployment all those years, I thought I deserved some time off. I started collecting unemployment ... and decided to spend some time with my true passion, Photography... in hopes we would soon be pregnant. I loved photography at first, and still do. But, my main clients are expectant mothers, newborns, children, etc. So, when at first it was a JOY, now at times it's extremely difficult to be around so many expectant mothers and newborns.
My plan was to give photography 100% and turn that into something that I could do part-time once I was blessed with a child. Since my sister got pregnant her first month trying, and my husband's brother has 4 children (pregnant with twins right now) ... we thought it wouldn't be THIS difficult. I was hoping that while on employment I would dabble in photography and would have gotten pregnant and then, once we had the child, I would be a Stay At Home Mom (SAHM). Well ... 6 months went by and not pregnant... then a 9 months went by and I knew I had to find a job. Photography paid SOME, but I knew it wouldn't compare to what I was making before, but since it was something I LOVED, I could sacrifice the $$. But, now with all the testing and insurance only covering certain things ... I started looking for jobs daily. I've applied to numerous jobs within the last year and NOTHING. I have a good resume and experience, but just live in a crappy town (Binghamton, NY) I think it's like top 10 depressing towns in the US. 
Anyway, my unemployment just officially ran out. I was planning on being a SAHM once we HAVE a child, but considering I'm not even pregnant yet, and the cost of treatments and such, I NEED to find a job and help support. My husband is a Mechanical Engineer, makes decent money, and is fine with the SAHM once we have a child, but would like me to work now to SAVE $$. Which I completely agree with. It's just hard to find a job in this area, and now I feel like I'm going to have to "settle" at just ANY JOB to make money. It's just difficult when I was making $50,000 at my last job to settle at a job that's significantly less, when I would be working just as much. 
I guess I was just hoping that I would have gotten pregnant sooner and then I wouldn't have the additional worry of finding a job from now until I have a child. I know this directly related to infertility, I'm just frustrated that I'm not pregnant yet (a year and a half of trying), and now the stress of $$ and finding a job doesn't help the situation!