Unbelievable!!

So after much stress and anger this week between DH and me- my dad throws a whole new piece into this crazy world we are living in!  After talking with the adoption agency again yesterday and getting some real numbers for costs, I knew DH would be for surely against adoption right now- minumum of $28,000!!  Really??  That is like two rounds of IVF!  $28,000 really not in our reach I know with a mortgage on our home, and another one on our 5 acres that we want to be building on.  I was really disheartened yesterday going home.  BUT, when I got home DH told me that my dad had called him to go look at a house with him.  WHAT?!?!  It is a good thing kind of what- not bad.  There is a house my dad wants to buy that is going to be forclosed on next week if they don't get a buyer.  4 bedrooms, 2.5 baths.  I have seen pictures online of it this morning- nothing glamorous, but nothing bad- in the country on one acre.  So my dad's idea is that he could buy the house, Jim and I could sell ours and then move into the new house and rent from him and my mom- rent being an amount to cover the cost of the property taxes and that's all.  Why is my dad doing this?  So that DH and I can start saving up money in order to start building our house.  I suggested saving up money for IVF or adoption, but DH doesn't agree. Is this a sign from GOD???  Really- because if my parents do this for us, I can't go to them and ask for $28,000 to adopt a baby.  I am so excited about this possibility, and that fact that if it happens, it is going to happen quickly because the home owner is on a tight timeline right now as they face the forclosure of their home.  If this all pans out there is not going to be any time right now to start the adoption process- because we will need to start getting the new house ready and our house ready to sell.  I honestly feel like this might be God's mighty hand telling me to CHILL OUT!!!  When I talked to DH more about my thoughts and feelings I was laughing.  He said that he honestly needed to call my dad to just thank him for giving me something to smile about- because he hasn't seen me smile since last Friday.  When I told him I think this might be God telling us be telling us to wait on the baby thing- he asked me if that meant I would stop crying every month, or every time someone gets a BFP-  that made me laugh, because I know that isn't the case. So I guess that was a lot of rambling......  My life and my plan may just be flipped upside down- but right now- if it happens, I know that it is a God thing- not a Sarah thing.