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i have a question, don't you all think that if you are texting with someone to make plans and even though its a week away and in the middle of the conversation i say yes that day sounds good and i ask where do you want to meet and i had texted her right back then she doesn't answer my text when i know i had just sent it right after hers? isnt that kinda rude that she just stoped and it was earlier in the day and she still hasn't texted back yet. isn't that rude to do to someone?? like rude to just stop the conversation right in the middle when i know she was still by her phone cuz i texted her right back? why does she keep doing things like this to me? and im talking about the same person as before. what do you guys think of this?
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I agree with you it is very rude. I dont know why she would treat you that way. I am so sorry and I know you are hurting. Huggs and love xoxo
Personally I think it\'s fine. I have to leave texts when I need to go to work or if I\'m just getting in the car, and sometimes it slips my mind to text back.
Is it ideal? No.
But it\'s not intentionally rude.
If someone continually blew me off or was consistently poor at communicating, I\'d just stop hanging out with them. Why put effort into someone who doesn\'t show they care?
Texting conversations often have to be dropped and picked up later. Happens all the time. Sometimes you are at work, or something happens, Texting takes a low priority as far urgency for most people. To avoid what you think is a rude disconnect, try a voice call. I can\'t say, as a sensitive person myself, I wouldn\'t be offended, I easily am. So I am not trying to belittle how you feel, just trying to say, that at least in the case of texts, be prepared for a long break in the conversation.
How do you know she got the text? Maybe something went wrong with your phone, her phone, or some piece of equipment in between. Text her again!
I think \"hm, guess she got busy. She\'ll text me later or she won\'t. Oh well.\"