Um what in the world...?

Brad is at my house and him and Becca went to our local Ice Cream place and they brought me back a shake. Well, Brad walked in my room took a drink of it and then gave it to me. He has done this a couple times with my food and drinks before and he has shared his stuff with me. But I am shocked.


Like what...?

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gratefulgrandma123
gratefulgrandma123

That was nice of them to get you a shake but not nice of him to drink it before you drink it. If they r going to give you something they should give it to you rather then drinking it before you can drink it. I think it was rude of him to do that & I'm sorry you had to & have had to deal with that with them. I don't think it is nice of him to do that. I hope u can enjoy your shake despite that. Maybe you can get another straw to use for your shake. Hugs
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09

It doesnt bother me. But knowing how Brad is, I am surprised he did that. I don't get grossed out by ppl drinking my stuff but when its food then it depends on the person. Lol
gratefulgrandma123
gratefulgrandma123

That's good u r ok with Brad doing that and u r fine. As long as it doesn't bother you & u r fine then it doesn't bother me & I'm glad u r happy. Hugs
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09

Aw thank you.
Hugs
gratefulgrandma123
gratefulgrandma123

Your welcome. My pleasure. I hope u will have a nice evening. Hugs
hasty_05
hasty_05

This is a good time to decide what your internal limits are, or boundaries. What Brad is doing is wrong and he’s showing you that he matters and you don’t. I hope you can learn to say no to stuff like this at your age. Don’t yell or rage at him, just calmly say, ewww — no thanks, I don’t want your germs. Stand up for yourself without losing your cool. I’d take the food and dump it out in the kitchen disposal or trash. Don’t give him or your sister money to purchase food for you. This is very aggressive and manipulative behavior on his part. No wonder people don’t like him much.