Uh oh...not good.
hey,
We'll I think im in a pickle. or maybe even the jar of pickles.
I met this woman, she's really cool, the night we met we talked for about 6 hours...and hours the day after...Sounds great...
Yet, my thought process regarding this person is totally fucked. I'm just waiting for her to tell me she's seeing someone eles, or that she will just stop contacting me or...that she's really just a whore and screwing with me.
This is not good, I had no idea my brain would reacte this way to someone being interested in me. It's been almost a year since my seperation and i really thought I was ready to start dating but now...man with these thoughts how could I be?...I know im being crazy, but i don't like this atall. I'm over thinking everything, I'll intentionally wait 5-10 minutes before texting her back just so it seems im not like...overly needy or?..Fuck i dunno, its mind game bullshit. Same shit i HATED when i was with my ex wife..
Not too sure what to do ...
Therapy maybe??
We'll I think im in a pickle. or maybe even the jar of pickles.
I met this woman, she's really cool, the night we met we talked for about 6 hours...and hours the day after...Sounds great...
Yet, my thought process regarding this person is totally fucked. I'm just waiting for her to tell me she's seeing someone eles, or that she will just stop contacting me or...that she's really just a whore and screwing with me.
This is not good, I had no idea my brain would reacte this way to someone being interested in me. It's been almost a year since my seperation and i really thought I was ready to start dating but now...man with these thoughts how could I be?...I know im being crazy, but i don't like this atall. I'm over thinking everything, I'll intentionally wait 5-10 minutes before texting her back just so it seems im not like...overly needy or?..Fuck i dunno, its mind game bullshit. Same shit i HATED when i was with my ex wife..
Not too sure what to do ...
Therapy maybe??
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Hey Wes, I feel for you man. You definitely got some things going on inside your head that may be slightly irrational. I have been through similar things and I know it doesn\'t feel too good. If you are in a position to take advantage of therapy than that might be a good idea. Another thing might be for you to take things slowly, to maybe see her as a friend until you get to know her better, than maybe you won\'t be bothered as much about who she may be seeing who if you are sounding needy. Nothing wrong with you enjoying her attention Wes, just got to try and keep things in check-easier said than done I know. I hope things work out for you.