ugggggg!
so i am at work today and in our down time we can do what we want....but when i am at work my dad's girlfriend sometimes goes to his house and she is confused to and a big problem! so i get a message from my daughter that she is going through all his cupboards and acusing us of not feeding him! i wish she was out of the picture she gets him so upset.....the other day she had it in her head he wasn't having bowl movements so she made him sit on the toilet with the bathroom doors open my daughter walked down the hall to her room and said it was awful....as a result of that his bp dropped. uggggggggg it is so frustrating and every time i am at work she does this and only when my one daughter is there (she is temporarily living with him....thank goodness she is) i tell her we try and get dad to eat and make him smoothies and we feed him if he needs help.....what makes me so mad is that we try so hard to get him nutrition that this is just rediculous i want her to but out!
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I know what you mean. I am with my sister 24/7, but her ex (who is still a good friend of hers and the only one who still keeps in touch regularly) always has something negative to say about how I\'m taking care of her. Fortunately, he lives far enough away that I don\'t have to deal with him often.
what do you do? she can be very off the wall....she has liver disease of some kind and i think her levels must be off. my dad hasnt wanted to talk to her much lately and my husband wants to get a restraining order against her. I dont know what my dad wants and it is hard to talk to him about this. when he doesnt talk to her he is happier most of the time but when she is around alot he sleeps more and is agitated and behaves like a bad teenager. she goes over to his house when i am at work.....which my sch varies. she wont drive in snow or high winds so i guess i am hoping for a very windy spring. I want my dad to be happy and not sick anymore.