ugggggg!

so i am at work today and in our down time we can do what we want....but when i am at work my dad's girlfriend sometimes goes to his house and she is confused to and a big problem!  so i get a message from my daughter that she is going through all his cupboards and acusing us of not feeding him!  i wish she was out of the picture she gets him so upset.....the other day she had it in her head he wasn't having bowl movements so she made him sit on the toilet with the bathroom doors open my daughter walked down the hall to her room and said it was awful....as a result of that his bp dropped.  uggggggggg it is so frustrating and every time i am at work she does this and only when my one daughter is there (she is temporarily living with him....thank goodness she is)   i tell her we try and get dad to eat and make him smoothies and we feed him if he needs help.....what makes me so mad is that we try so hard to get him nutrition that this is just rediculous  i want her to but out!