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richard and me decided to take our caravan away for a 3 day break,we hitched up and off we went some will know my ed lives 5 mins away from us and i have to go past her flat when i go out.well we drive passed get two streets passed hers and richard says look her car thats the lesbian wifes car, i look but to late he drives around again slow, i look into the car and her wife is kissing and its not my ed. it makes me sad she has left her family to marry her, becouse she said she hated us all but never gave a good reason,now she is betraying her, all i ever wonted was for her to be happy.this follows a pic that was sent to me from partners face book were she has someones head in her breasts.my ed is not on face book nor are we.so i am waighting to here she has had her guts and heart ripped out, and has a very good chance if the partner leaves her of losing part of her home in settlement, well iam not going to let my self worrie about her,she meet her with in 1 week of meeting she moved in 1 month they were engaded then planning a wedding they married 3 years ago august.my ed is going to learn a hard life lession, i am not going to ever tell her what we saw,she would not listen even if we did.so my ed works her butt off so she can stay home and play around.guess that makes my daughter blind of stupid.
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I\'m so sorry. How traumatic for you! I hope you can slightly put it out of your mind and enjoy your get away.
It must be so very hard knowing that your D is in a controlling relationship, and seeing that! As much as we work to emotionally distance ourselves from these estranging children, it still hurts us to see them hurt. I think it will always be this way. So sorry you and DH had to see that.
It is so hard to see them making such mistakes and know the pain they are in for. They just have to learn things the hard way. That is how I feel about my daughter. She is in such a relationship and I have no idea what is going on but I know it will go bad no matter how hard she tries to please him. I cannot imagine what it must have been like for you to actually see it with your own eyes and know you cannot protect her or even tell her. This is sad.