tv show lost and sadness

So here I am watchng the lost episode of Lost and cripes it lasts until after 10 pm. and about 10 pm my son is showering and the emotional nature of Lost hits me and I start crying up a storm.  It's not really Lost per se but the fact that that show was one both I and the wife started watching together and we shared that..... like other things....  and now the show is gone.... and 24 is ending also...... and that was another show that we got interested in a while ago......  so my son walks into the bedroom watching me cry my eyes out and I explain to him why and he is ok even so.... didn't sleep well last night then and it's been awhile since I didn't sleep well......  just shows you that sometimes you need just the rigth trigger to start an avalanche of tears.
 
 

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Barb99999999
Barb99999999

Your loss is heartbreaking, I went though it also. I know this sounds cold , but to survive , you need to move on. she is not suffering as you are. All this pain will not solve anything. You gave her your undivided love. Your a good honest man, out there is someone waiting for you who will cherish your love. Life is short, go find it. You cant move on till you find someone to love as much as you loved her. Even if this next love doesnt work out it will be a stepping stone for the one that will. There is life after divorce. I thought my life was over after mine, but now I know he did me a favor as I have found the best man who is the love of my life. If I never would have been divorced , I never would have found him. Lots of good women are waiting for a good guy like you, you will see. My mom had a saying and I found out see was right Cry, and you cry alone, laugh, and the world laughs with you, its true. You are alone right now but once you start smiling you wont be alone. good luck,its hard to see someone hurting so so much.
directingpond
directingpond

I think crying is good for you! I know it took awhile for some of the emotions to start showing (like wow how long it took before you finally got angry!). It\'s all part of the process and it shows you are already starting to move forward. It\'s totally ok to give yourself some time to grieve the loss of Lost, and of your marriage.
Huge Hugs Jeff- T
hurtinandhealin2560
hurtinandhealin2560

I so understand. My ex and I always watched Anthony Bourdain\'s \'No Reservations\' on the Travel Channel every Monday night. I still cannot watch it--even two years later. I will try and then turn it off. It\'s funny how those little triggers work. I know one day I\'ll be okay and it won\'t bother me, but I just wanted to let you know that I understand how you feel.