Turns Out He\'s Even MORE Of A JERK *#*%@*@*, than I thought !

I knew He was a LIAR, but I didn't realize He was LYING SO MUCH !!!! I spoke with a Woman He HAD on His AIM Buddies List for a long time, and found out some interesting Things about My now EX-BF ! I had put through a Request to Her for Her to ADD ME to Her AIM Buddies List, and I didn't really expect Her to ACCEPT it ... but She did, and when I IMed Her One Day after that She actually patiently talked to Me for a Long While. There was One OTHER Woman that I had put through a Request for HER to ADD Me to Her AIM Buddies List, BUT SHE DENIED IT !!!! Hmmmmm ???? That made Me think, and consider that it's Highly possible that it's HER that My Ex-Bf was Cheating on Me with, and HER that took Him in on Thursday September 18th when He Left Me ! Because NOT ONLY did that Woman NOT ADD ME to Her AIM Friends List, when I had E-mailed Her and Politely asked Her IF He had Moved in with Her because at that Time I was concerned about Him since I had noticed that He hadn't been Online for a Week..... She NEVER REPLIED back to Me ! I saw that by the Status of the E-mail that She had Read it, but She Never wrote back to Me ! I thought that seemed very suspect to Me. To Me that suggested even MORE that He is probably there with HER ! IF He wasn't, then I would have thought that She would have at least E-mailed Me back with some sort of Short Note saying something like... " Sorry, but I don't talk to Ray much, and besides He's Just a Friend.. Nothing More. I'm in a Relationship with Someone Else right now, anyway. "BUT.. I didn't get any reply back from Her. He Silence speaks much Louder than Her words ever could have. I can only imagine what sort of LIES He's told Her about ME !!!!! He's probably made Me out to be the WORST PERSON on EARTH !!!!And He probably even ADDED a LIE saying that I MADE HIM LEAVE !!!! That's probably how He got Her to take Him in so quickly.... giving Her a Sob Story that I was KICKING HIM OUT !!!! LOLI would try to Contact Her AGAIN, but I don't feel it'd be even worth a Moment of My Time.IF He's really there, then I'm sure She's so Brain-Washed by His LIES that NOTHING I could possibly say to Her would even begin to sink in ! HE'S HER PROBLEM NOW !!!! GOOD LUCK TO HER... BECAUSE SHE'S GOING TO NEED IT !OH... BTW... BACK TO MY ORIGINAL POINT... THAT OTHER WOMAN that actually Spoke to Me Online, and even ADDED Me to Her AIM Buddies List, told Me a Few Interesting Things about My Ex-Bf that I didn't know.Apparently He had been CALLING HER on His CELL PHONE a LOT, and at Times when They talked He would tell Her about " DATES " that He had had RECENTLY, AND EVEN ABOUT ONE OF THEM THAT HE HAD THOUGHT WOULD WORK OUT... BUT HE DECIDED THE ' SEX ' WITH HER WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH !!!!!!! SO NOT ONLY WAS HE TALKING TO WOMEN HE CHATTED WITH ONLINE... ON HIS CELL PHONE... HE WAS ALSO MEETING WITH WOMEN HE CHATTED WITH ONLINE, HAVING DATES WITH THEM, AND SLEEPING WITH THEM BEHIND MY BACK !!!!!!!!!!HOW DARE HE DO THAT TO ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!HE'S SUCH A DAMN LIAR !!!! OMG !!THIS MEANS THAT HE WAS ALMOST CONSTANLY LYING TO ME PRACTICALLY THE ENTIRE LAST PERIOD THAT HE WAS WITH ME - ( I say " Last Period ", since We had a Brief Separation back in February, but Stupidly I had taken Him BACK AGAIN - I wish I hadn't taken Him back in February, then I wouldn't be dealing with this right now ! ) !!!!!All of this makes Me WONDER IF HE EVEN KNEW WHAT THE REAL TRUTH WAS ANYMORE !!?!    

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Oh my dear - sending so many hugs. And I know the pain and anger and shock is overwhelming but I just have to tell you I am so glad you are getting your freedom. Hugs and stay strong and take care of your wonderful self.