Trying to work things out.
Well the house is sold today and I have moved into an apartment. The house had too many bad memories to hold on to, and I needed a fresh start. We were supposed to be divorced last Wednesday, but we decided to put it off to try and work things out. There is no quick fix, but we have made a lot of progress in counseling over the last month or two. I still do not want to have any interaction with her kids yet, as they were one of the main sources of our problems, and nothing has changed there. Counseling is showing her how disrespectful they are, and have always been towards her, and that is a good thing. Still a long way to go.
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Good luck with counseling. I think it is a very useful thing IF both parties will participate. Everyone deserves a second chance, glad you\'re trying and I hope she is on board as well. Taking care of you is important right now and things will work out for the best in the long run. Happy Holidays!