Trying to stay positive
I had my post BFN saline sonogram and everything looked great so I got the go ahead for my next cycle, just have to wait for AF. After my horrific AF after the BFN, I really don't know when I'll get it again, especially considering my cycle has gone as long as 65 days before. So now I am back in the waiting game. Trying to take this time to get back into running. My mother-in-law's cousin came to visit today and about 10 minutes after she had told him we were going through IVF, he made a comment about God knowing when people aren't meant to have babies and sometimes people should listen. It was completely unrelated to me, his son has a crazy ex-wife and he is just glad they didn't have kids together, but still...its a little insensitive...but we all get crap like that that just makes us want to scream right??
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OMG! I would have probably freaked out! I am not really sure about the procedure after IVF, because it was my first time and I just scheduled an appointment with my dr to see whats up. I will be here to talk, since we are going through the same stuff and are the same age! Stay positive!
It\'s so sad that I\'m so used to stuff like this, I don\'t usually let it get to me but after everything that just happened it\'s hard not to. I just keep telling myself that I\'m glad I won\'t ever be that ignorant! Did you get AF yet? Be warned, she\'s a bitch after an ivf cycle. The doctor\'s should really warn us about this, hopefully it won\'t be so bad for you.
Honestly, I am going through the same thing as you. I work as a social worker with child protective services and after my BFN I got really emotional and started getting overwhelmed at work...I am trying to stay positive, but its so freakn hard! Yes I got AF the day O got my BFN and it was completely awful, super heavy, painful, and lasted for longer than a week. I was like wth!