Trying to stay positive

Baby girl is doing amazing.. she is now 3 weeks 3days... She is by far the greatest gift I could've received after 13 yrs of waiting... Her Father on the other hand still does nothing, spends most of his days sitting on the couch collecting unemployment.. I am currently in the process of hiring a Nanny so I can return to work full time (id rather be home with Angelica) but her Father and I are getting a divorce, so I'm learning to do things on my own... This whole time struggling with IF I wanted to be a stay at home Mom, we agreed on that but now he has other plans in mind.. thats ok though as long as he doesn't try and take her from me I will be civil.. but I told him straight out after all the BS he's put me through these past few yrs that other then for her sake of talking I want nothing to do with him in my life.. he lost that privilege when he messed around.. Baby girl is my entire world and I will do everything I can to make hers a great one

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PolkaDotGirl
PolkaDotGirl

Glad you\'re such a wonderful mommy! Good luck with the nanny and job search hun.
jfv9f0
jfv9f0

:-) thanks so much I am def trying my best
JA0811
JA0811

So glad you have sweet Angelica! Best of luck finding a great Nanny!
jfv9f0
jfv9f0

Thank you :)
aussiechick
aussiechick

sounds like you have a great plan!!..he does not deserve you or your beautiful daughter..you to girls will do fine and you will be teaching her not to let a man treat her that way..hugs..
jfv9f0
jfv9f0

Ty
krjohnson1980
krjohnson1980

This sounds so bitter sweet to me, you are going through such a tough divorce but have this amazing miracle to enjoy at the same time. I pray you get the strength to move on from an unhealthy marriage and make all the right decisions for you and your babygirl! You are stronger than you know.
jfv9f0
jfv9f0

thank you so much for your kind words.. it really is bitter sweet.. I think the Lord gave me her to give me strength to move forward...