trying to restore peace and balance!
Ricky finally moved out after causing too much drama. He was getting way too much into my person life, cramping my space. wanted to know every single thing about what have I been doing, why this, why that,.... and then if i wasn't feeling too good and kept to my self, he took as me "pushing" him away. everything in the house that happened or didn't happen to his expectation was taken personally by him. and then we had to answer all his questions and long talks. And if i seem to NOT talk to him (either due to being ill or too much goin on) he would get upset and call me before getting home, demanding that we set time apart THAT NIGHT to have a discussion. and if that wasn't bad enough, I had to listen to all his DELUSIONS about stupid shit. one example of his "theories": Matthew bought an AC on perpuse just to keep me locked up in my room, to control me. and another one is: that i hurt a lil and all of a sudden i'm limpin around with a cast. 1st of all.... i'm not even home "all day" to be locked up in my room. i'm in n out of the house doing stuff, going to VA, swimming, groceries, etc. and IF I AM in my room all day, it's cuz i'm in a fucking flare or in too much PAIN!!! and want to be left alone!!! 2nd of all.... i don't have any CAST. but i think he may be referring to my support hose. and yes, i wear them when i feel my leg is swelling, and i'll continue to wear them for days afterward. BUT IT'S NOT A CAST! dumb ass. and then one night he tried to convince me and mom that Sonnie is on drugs!! .....wow. so i tell him "enough is ENOUGH! pack up and get the hell out!" I typed up a eviction notice and gave him 2 WHOLE MONTHS to get out, where the codes here only require 45 days. BUT he didn't go out with out a fight. 4 whole days of endless drama and commotion from him.... and finally he said he wasn't gonna stay any more even if he had 2 months.Mom and i lent him a total of $600 to get him the hell out! so he can pay his next security deposit at the new house. we couldn't take any more.... and i was about to put all his shit out side and just change the locks! well he's out now, and before he left i made him sign a contract to pay both mom and i back. if he doesn't pay, i'll take him to court, just like my ex land lady! HAH!! then yesterday my car was towed out from under me with out me even being there! i panicked and call 911 thinkin it was stolen.... turns out it was towed for an expired sfety sticker. and all i had left was ONE stinkin car part to get for it to pass! ....assholes. anyways.... i got the car back ($225 later) and got the sticker put on it. then today mom and i went shopping for ALL new stuff for the room (that was Ricky's). it's so bright and peaceful now...(exhales)... and it's always gonna remain a guest room, beause i will NEVER rent it out again! so whoever friend of mine or mom's comes to visit will always have a place to stay! he he!!
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