trying to relax

Well it seems we cant freaking win.....  Well the other day I mentioned about the car when I was on my way up to the hospital it seems to be fine but the fiancee is having issues with getting his prosthetic leg on finally yesterday afternoon one of the guys who works for the company who made his leg came up to the hospital took a look at the leg then took the padding off of the top well my fiancee still couldnt get it on the guy said he would come up this morning with a new longer pin for the insert and told my fiancee to call him this morning....  My fiancee did call him the guy this morning but didnt get an answer in the meantime they at the hospital had taken him down to Physical Therapy my fiancee didnt bother to take his cell phone with him because PT is located in the basement of the hospital & he wouldnt get any reception down there....  He told met that when he got back up to his room there was a voice mail on his phone from this guy & the guy said he talked to the other guy & he thinks that his stump is swollen How the heck do u know u didnt even see him...  The other guy said he would be up to see my fiancee later on today....  Im beyond upset but I know I shouldnt because this is a situation I have no control over....  But the reason that Im so upset is because the doctors are getting on my fiancee telling him he needs to get back on the lung transplant list since his lungs are that bad with that said I feel the guys are holding him back from doing his Physical Therapy so that he can get to the end result of actually walking with his prosthetic leg because when your on (at least for the lung transplant list not sure about any other transplant list) you have to be active and be able to walk so when u do get it done you wont have any issues with the new lungs.....  Im trying to relax because Im really upset and feel as if my anxiety is trying to start up....