trying to climb the wet wall of tears

This week has been so hard. As Charlie comes to the realization that both of his boys are "train wrecks" for a lack of better words he is feeling more sad and has higher levels of anxiety. I feel alone seeing as I of all people can not help him and he has no one to talk to other than the councilors. I feel his pain yet can only sit by and watch in fear if I say anything it will set him off or do more damage. He needs friends yet no one wants to hear his problems anymore because he never "deals" with the trauma he voices his concerns and does not break the cycle. With him being the father of a level 2 sex offender and my daughter and I being the victim...what can I do??