Trying something different

Okay so I started charting the beginning of this month but a few days later, decided I wasn't going to.  This is our 6 month now ttc and even though so many people annoyingly keep telling me to just try and relax and don't "try", I thought I'd give it a shot.  So no temperature charting and no keeping track of CM.  I have to say, it's not easy and I'm not sure it's working because I've caught myself looking at the calendar counting the days when I should be ovulating and I'm also still paying attention to CM.  You just can't ignore it, it's impossible.  I think I should be ovulating this weekend but I'm trying not to think about it.  Right.  It's tough to do.  If this doesn't work, I'm going back to charting I think.  We'll see.  It is nice to jump out of bed and not have to take my temp.  We'll see how it goes!  I'm keeping my fingers crossed.