Truth

 

  Trusting people is hard I trusted people  and they always let me down. People say they care, but if they did they would  fight to  keep me. no one has fought for me, no one  ever will. and  just as I thought you didn't  they didn't . It was just easier  to let me go then to take the time, and patience  to  build up trust, and understanding.  any one can say I love you and copy and paste quotes of love it is everywhere.  but to really prove it you need to express it via action. say it with your heart not  copy and paste paragraphs any one can  do. I can do that I have done that. when I hear word of love from people   I cringe because  it sounds so put-on.   Maybe  I just no longer believe  in love love has been such a unreachable   obstacle  for me that I no longer  believe it even exist. I believe love is dead at least for me.  and when people express it I just  can't feel it I am no longer   able to feel it. it is like faith I can't believe  in that  either people  can say it all they want, but it doesn't mean it is true.   I believe  my past online experiences  with people who say their real and their interested in knowing me  are false  I believe half the people  I exchange chats with are only out for one thing  money, monetary gain, gift cards, blah blah blah  if  they were interested in anything about me  they would  not sound like their reading  a script all the time. there is no emotion  behind it  and believe me some of the so called scripts are really good, but there is always  the fakeness   there if you know what to look for   you know the things they said are false . I am  going to chose  to straighten ..or somewhat straightened up my life and try to get the hell out of all this stress I  been under  for so so long.   I just can't deal with it no more . plus  sigh I use to dance  for fun for my stress  for my sanity  and now I think I need to start to dance again because if I don't  do something to get the stress out of my life I am liable to do something I will regret and  something I can't come back from  and no one  is in my life at the moment that can stop me from it because like I said before  No one is willing   to fight for me to help me  step away  from the ledge I am on right now  so does speak  so I have to fight for myself.  Fight  with myself  to get  me  away from that  ledge  anyway  that is my vlog  for now, I am not sure people will understand it I sometimes can't understand my ramblings but  it is out there  now. 


 

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Lost_n_Broken
Lost_n_Broken

Unfortunately I know exactly the way you are feeling. I am fighting myself not to give up on the world and love which is saying alot because Raj (Big Bang Theory) is my spirit animal. I am tired of being there for everyone and feeling like I am a burden if I need them. I am tired of being so weak that I do need them. I am tired of spending the weekend barely able to get out of bed and not having a single person reach out to me. I too tried connecting with people on line and within a week they were asking for money or personal information to con me out of money. When did we all forget what it means to be human and care for each other.
Look you don't know me from Adam but rest assured I don't want anything from you other than maybe someone that can relate to what I feel. I often ramble so you will know it is not a script. Kinda like now I guess. Anyway if you need someone to listen and care I am usually on here at least daily. Sending you prayers and love.
Jadegirl72
Jadegirl72

Oh thank you Yea I hate those people there should be a special hell for those people. I am hear to, and I ramble to. lol no worries Raj that is funny the guy is funny. I feel the same way. There has been days I just want to sleep and not bother facing the day. If it wasn't for my kids I would of already gave up the ghost. The best thing to do is like dory said in Finding nemo Got to keep swimming so I am just going to keep doing just that. lol thank you for listening prayers and love to you to. For now ..good night and hang in there.