Trouble and Trials

We have been living in MS for going on 3-1/2 years.  We bought a house that was a fixer upper because it was in our price range.  We have had one thing after another major thing go wrong with it.  We didnt get an inspection so no one to blame but ourselves really. 
We also own a home free an clear in Arkansas, and just had renters move it.  We now have major repairs on the sewage lines in that house.  It seems everytime we get money stuck away to do something on the MS house something goes wrong - the well storage tank needed to be replaced, then the well itself died.  We have had to repair all the floors joists, redo all the plumbing and a lot of the electrical.  The house was suppose to be slate.  It's asbestos and it leaks terribly.  My ceiling is about to collapse in two rooms. 
I'm limited on what I can do with the fibro.  I'm struggling with depression and being overwhelmed.  The stress makes the fibro worse.  God help me.  I need support.