Totally uterly clueless

I will start this out by saying that him being a man is not and excuse. I will start ouy by saying just because alot of husbands are they same way itis not an excuse. SO Tuesdaay night we went for our adoption orientation and it was great. We went and grabbed a bite to eat afterwards and started talking. Well we ended up in a pretty deep discustion where i told him i was hurt and upset that he doesnt even ask how i am doing with everything. After the failed IUI he never once asked how i was or even asked how i felt about going through the adoption process. I told him I was not ok I have never been ok and am still hurting and upset and him ignoring it makes it that much worse. His stupid excuse is well you were not saying anything so I thought you were ok. WTF really. Are you that stupid.!!!!!!!! I stoped saying things becuase you never understood or helped. SO all that being said you would have thought he would at some point in the following 24 hours talk to me give me a chance to get everything off my chest. But no he didnt. I bet he thinkk we did talk. Ya right. Like i could say and cry over my feeling at MOES eating a taco!!! Get real. SO he is continuing to ignore everthing and acts like im all peachy. He asks why i am on edge but when i tell him he does nothing. Then he has the guts totry to have sex last night. Get real. Not going to happen. If you cant take care of my emotional and mental needs im not taking care of any of yours. I mean if he thinks mentioning it means we talked about it well we mentioned sex also so its like we had it right. I feel like he is being super selfish and not caring about me. I told him I was not ok and he still never talked to me about it. I have no one to talk to about these things but you guys but sometimes i need him in person in the flesh!!!!!