Too needy?

This is a recent text message from my husband that I recieved at work!    " So a friend of mine (no names please) calls me up and wants to talk about some problems that he is having in his relationship.  He says he does not feel loved, when asked why he feels that way, he says she does not shower him with much love and attention, she initiates only a couple of hugs and kisses every day - mmmm only a couple hugs and kisses in a 24 hour period?  He said they only make love about once a week average and HE is the one who has to initiate (or ask) to be able to even get her to go into the bedroom so they can make love.  I asked him if she was interested in his needs and wants, he said she wants him to listen to how her day went but when he is tries to talk, she is too busy cleaning and cooking or brushing her teeth and hair or taking a shower or playing computer games or texting friends and relatives.  I told him that there are only so many hours in the day and she is using them up on other things than him - life is too short and he deserves to be loved - I said "Divorce her". 
Really? 

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lucillegem
lucillegem

I dont know, I think he should actually sit down and talk to her about how he feels. But whatever she is doing that she seems to be so busy with, arent big things they are menial, so what if shes playing computer games or brushing her teeth or whatever... just ask her for a few moments to talk about their relationship. And if she still has an attitude, id tell him to rethink the relationship :/