too much stress
Baby Iysabella came home from the hospital on Sunday. She, her mom & her dad were going to live with my daughter-in-law. Christina is 18 almost 19 and Terrell is 17 almost 18 so we thought it would be good if they stayed with family. The problem is my DIL loves crisis and so that evening she, my grandson Josh who functions much of the time in anger since Ed's passing and Terrell got into a big argument & Chrsitina called me sobbing hysterically at 11:00 pm that Josh & Terrell were fighting. And it got physical. My DIL has instigated much of this confrontation that was coming sooner or later. The details are ridiculous so I won't even repeat it Are you kidding?! With a 5 day old baby in the house?!
Christina asked me to come get her & the baby & Terrell so I did. Ken was kind of mad. He doesn't like his little world shaken up so he started yelling at me. I calmly said, "let's not forget I practically raised your 2 sons & a 5 day old baby is involved!!!" He quickly apologized, ( I think he was a little scared of me, lol) and I went to my DIL's where I was met at the door with her screaming at me, "You better get him outta here!" Are you kidding!?! (I say that a lot don't I? lol - must make jokes or cry!). I didn't say this because people were all ramped up but who moved Terrell into her house to begin with? And let him sleep in my granddaughter's bed?! Yep, my DIL!! Shocking she turned up pregnant!(I do adore the baby though - Iysabella is a blessing).
So suffice it to say the 3 of them are living with me now. The baby is just precious and I won't turn my granddaughter or Iysabella out but yikes! I hate the drama. Christina's been crying because she hates the fighting, misses her family, misses Ed & just had a baby.
The good news is they are wonderful parents, (cuz I'm watching). The baby is clean, Christina's nursing, and they both jump when she cries.
I cried too all of Sunday night and didn't sleep much so got a raging migraine yesterday & had to call in sick. This stuff makes me miss Eddie more. I feel like his kids are falling apart without him. And its hard. Please say some prayers for healing for my family.
Love and peace to all. Love, Linda
Christina asked me to come get her & the baby & Terrell so I did. Ken was kind of mad. He doesn't like his little world shaken up so he started yelling at me. I calmly said, "let's not forget I practically raised your 2 sons & a 5 day old baby is involved!!!" He quickly apologized, ( I think he was a little scared of me, lol) and I went to my DIL's where I was met at the door with her screaming at me, "You better get him outta here!" Are you kidding!?! (I say that a lot don't I? lol - must make jokes or cry!). I didn't say this because people were all ramped up but who moved Terrell into her house to begin with? And let him sleep in my granddaughter's bed?! Yep, my DIL!! Shocking she turned up pregnant!(I do adore the baby though - Iysabella is a blessing).
So suffice it to say the 3 of them are living with me now. The baby is just precious and I won't turn my granddaughter or Iysabella out but yikes! I hate the drama. Christina's been crying because she hates the fighting, misses her family, misses Ed & just had a baby.
The good news is they are wonderful parents, (cuz I'm watching). The baby is clean, Christina's nursing, and they both jump when she cries.
I cried too all of Sunday night and didn't sleep much so got a raging migraine yesterday & had to call in sick. This stuff makes me miss Eddie more. I feel like his kids are falling apart without him. And its hard. Please say some prayers for healing for my family.
Love and peace to all. Love, Linda
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