Too much and no time!
The humidity is so thick I had to put AC on even though it's really not too warm! LOL! I still don't understand my thermostat! I want my old one back but hubby says this kind saves energy! Not when he leaves it don't! LOL! Unless I'm turn it off! LOL! I have a hard time with the humidity and will over ride the set temp quite often! On to another subject! I am still helping out with my in-law at nursing home and probably will continue even when mother-n-law's leg heals. The only way I will quit going is if we move too far or I get to sick. She says she couldn't eat her dinner last night and asked me to get her a small burger from near by Burger king. I just hope she doesn't start asking me to do that alot! She has no idea that her whole income is less than what it cost for her to be there and I am keeping it to myself that I know! She is starting to accept that she is there permanently. My mother-n-law said she can't believe how happy she has become since I have started coming to look after her! I suppose I do a better job at getting the things she needs and understanding what she is trying to ask for! I do aim to please! LOL! I don't always know what she is saying but can at least figure out what is most important of her needs. Still having trouble trying to find time to do things with and for my husband since he started grave yard shift! He already had trouble sleeping and now he has no time to sleep! He is thinking of leaving the department but not sure what department would be better. I sure wish he could though! If he could just cope better with it , so could I! I try to stay up on his hours and sleep when he does. But that fouls up the works with his business and taking care of our pets too! So what it all boils down to is that I get tired more and frustrated when trying to schedule appointments with customers or Drs. or when we will be able to go shopping!LOL! That's right! My husband likes to shop! LOL! Not as much as he use to now that our nights and days are mixed up! Trips to the bank are crammed in where ever he knows we will be passing a branch on our way to other places! And tonight before he left for work he asks if I want to ride in parade again! Well I say not if it means that he wont get any sleep after his shift! I can't believe he actually thought I would want it that bad! But he goes on about it until I ask how bad did he want to do it! He wants only if I want it! LOL! I only want to do it IF he wants to do it! LOL! And I told him I wouldn't be able to enjoy myself knowing he hadn't slept in 24hrs! Well I think we got that straightened out now! LOL! I wonder when he will get that my pleasure comes from pleasing him as much as myself! Maybe he got it confused with the fact that I said I may not be able to do things with him for many years to come because I don't know how fast or how bad my arthritis will get in the future. I only meant that if it is possible not to put off the things we enjoy til after he retires! I am 10 years older and that may shorten the time we'll have for any fun activities! All in all I am happy to be his wife and happy with my life! If I wanted more ,I know it is up to me to do something about it!I pray all my friends are happy,safe and painfree!
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