Too far

A man called this evening and said he had a really bad headache.  He wanted a massage.  My ad specifically mentions migraines.  Then he wanted to know was the massage from a man or a woman.  Then where am I located.  If I were any closer we would be shopping at the same grocery store. 
 
Too far he said.  I know what the issue was.  Gender.
 
When I was in school I thought that if someone were in pain gender would not be an issue, that it wouldn't matter if the person capable of easing the pain were male, female or wookie from star wars.  I was wrong.