Tonight :(
Tatum showed up late and sat behind me to the left and my sister kept staring at him and them she would look at me smiling. She stared at him to whole fucking night. He didn't talk to me. He looked at me a couple times but didnt come over and talk. I barely looked over at him and I could tell that he wanted to come over but he didnt. I think my sister embarassed him and normally she isnt there. She is normally at work.
I am wanna cry. :(
I feel like I lost him forever.
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Next time be bold. You make the first move. Don’t have to spectacular. Just start a conversation. Life’s too short to have regrets
Scaredandafraid is right. I watched Cory a little while and when I had the chance I went to him and said hi. I needed something bold so I said he's cute and he smiled and chuckled and said I'm cute too. Later I purposely ran into him swimming under water to get his attention. Boys sometimes need several hints to get the point. It was the best decision of our lives being the first one to be bold.
I dont think you lost him if he really likes you. If that happened to me I'd be scared. Not like run forever scared but like omg someone knows and I don't like the looks I'm getting. I think the others are right here by you making the next move. That's what would work for me. He might not say much till you do it. I know I'd be too nervous to say much if anything.
Parents do things similar to this to get you embarrassed. You'll be OK. Just apologize to him about your sister and things should be back on track. It's a normal circumstance for things like that to happen.
If you can get the nerve up just tell him how you feel. It's easier said than done but it's a chance we have to take some times in order to know what could be. My boyfriend had feelings for me since the first time we met 3 years ago. He kept it to himself the whole time until he said that one day he realized that there was never going to be a perfect moment, place or time to ask me out so he decided to just go ahead and do it on New Years Eve. He took a leap of faith and hoped for the best possible outcome. And now we're celebrating our 1 month anniversary today. I wish you the best of luck and I hope things turn out better for you the next time you see Tatum.
Thank you all. I will apologize to him about my sister and I might make the first move. But that scares me.
It's only scary till you do it. Tell him and it will go away. Happens every time.
Unless I get rejected.
He likes you. I don't think he will.
It just scary to think about.
Everyone says it like its easy to do. But its not.
I know it's a big step. I've taken some big steps in the last few months and it is scary even to think about it. Trust me I get rejected or laughed at all the time. I keep going.
But this could ruin our friendship forever.
Idk. Wink at him.
Lol.