TOMORROW WILL BE 41 YEARS!!!!!!!!

HELLO,  TOMORROW MY HUSBAND AND I WILL BE CELEBRATING 41 YEARS OF MARRIAGE.  WE GIVE ALL THE PRAISE AND GLORY TO GOD. 
WHEN WE WERE MARRIED 35 YEARS WE RENEWED OUR VOWS.  IT WASN'T ON THE 15TH BUT ON THE 7TH OF MAY.  THE CHURCH WE BELONG TO MOVED TO A NEW BUILDING AND THE SUNDAY OF THE FIRST SERVICE WE RENEWED OUR VOWS. 
ALL OUR BOYS AND GRANDCHILDREN WERE THERE EXCEPT OUR OLDEST SON.  HIS WIFE'S GRANDMOTHER HAD JUST DIED AND HE HAD TO BE THERE FOR HER. 
OUR OLDEST SON THAT WAS THERE WALKED ME DOWN THE AISLE.  AND OUR OTHER TWO SON'S WERE UP FRONT WITH THERE FATHER.  OUR TWO OLDEST GRANDDAUGHTER'S WALKED IN FRONT OF ME WITH SOME FLOWERS.
WE WROTE OUR OWN VOWS.  MY HUSBAND SAID HIS FIRST.  WHEN HE GOT DONE IT WAS MY TURN BUT I STARTED CRYING AT FIRST.  OUR PASTOR SAID HE COULDN'T SAY THEM FOR ME.  LOL!  FINALLY I WAS ABLE TO SAY THEM. 
WHAT I SAID WAS-WE'VE BEEN THROUGH IT ALL-THE FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE, THE IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH, AND THE FOR RICHER AND FOR POORER.  THE ONLY THING WE HAVEN'T BEEN THROUGH IS UNTIL DEATH DO WE PART AND I HOPE THAT DOESN'T HAPPEN FOR A LONG TIME.
IT'S NOT ALWAYS EASY BUT WE HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT LOVE IS NOT A FEELING.  IT IS A DECISION.  WE HAVE TO DECIDE EVERYDAY WHAT WE'RE GOING TO DO.  I MADE MY MIND UP MORE THEN 41 YEARS THAT ONCE I GOT MARRIED IT WAS FOREVER.  BY THE GRACE OF THE GOOD LORD AND ONE DAY AT A TIME WE GOT THROUGH IT.  HE KNEW WHAT AND WHO WE NEEDED TO GET EACH OTHER THROUGH THESE YEARS.  HE KEPT US TOGETHER FOR A TIME SUCH AS THIS.     
I HOPE EVERYONE HAS A BLESSED AND GOOD WEEK. I KNOW I WILL.  HUGS,  CHRIS

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CactusRose3
CactusRose3

Dear Chris, that is BEAUTIFUL, JUST BEAUTIFUL so loving. and what preciousness. You are an inspiration to all and I really like how you said: Love is not a feeling , it is a decision.. Thank you for sharing this journal entry.
God bless you with many more years of marriage
Love your friend Leslie XOXO
deleted_user
deleted_user

Praise the Lord! God bless you both!
angellady
angellady

Happy Anniversary Chris! Congrats on 41 yrs! I\'ll be married 41 yrs in Nov. God\'s blessings to you both. Congrats on becoming a grandma again. I had a feeling that was the news. :) hugs
deleted_user
deleted_user

I saw your journal entry and was amazed to see you two will be celebrating 41 years!!! Congratulations!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user

Congratulations ! You sound like you have a wonderful marriage.
tryinagain
tryinagain

I was on vacation and catching up on your journals ...CONGRATS on the new grandchild and CONGRATS on the 41 years ...WOW that is a great accomplish especially now a days !!!

I hope you have a wonderful day with your hubby of 41 YEARS !!!!

ENJOY !

Hugggsssss
perplexed46
perplexed46

Happy 41st Anniversary to you & your hubby! What a beautiful journal & a beautiful love that you have for each other!

Love & hugs,
Lois
sunsetzzs
sunsetzzs

Happy Anniversary to you and your husband! And Congratulations to you both on your 41st Anniversary!
tgik
tgik

HELLO EVERYONE, SORRY I DIDN\'T GET ON YESTERDAY BUT MY LAPTOP WASN\'T WORKING RIGHT. I HAD A HARD TIME TODAY TOO BUT I MADE IT. LOL!
THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR YOUR CONGRATULATIONS AND COMMENTS. WE WENT TO BREAKFEAST YESTERDAY AND THE TWO COUPLE\'S WE EAT BREAKFEAST WITH FORGOT OR DIDN\'T KNOW IT WAS OUR ANNIVERSARY. THE ONE LADY (SHE IS A PASTOR) CALLED TO SEE WHAT TIME WE\'D BE HOME. I MADE AN APPOINTMENT TO GET MY HAIR CUT AND SAID BE HOME BY 2:30. I THOUGHT SHE\'D BRING OVER A CARD. WHEN SHE GOT HERE SHE HAD A CARD AND A DREAM CATCHER WIND CHIMES-MY HUSBAND IS NATIVE AMERICAN. SO SHE THOUGHT HE\'D LIKE IT. THEN HER HUSBAND CAME IN WITH A CAKE. A FEW MINUTES LATER THE OTHER COUPLE CAME TO THE DOOR. THEY CAME AND SPENT A FEW MINUTES WITH US AND HAD SOME CAKE. I THOUGHT THAT WAS VERY NICE OF THEM.
TOMORROW WE\'RE SUPPOSED TO GET TOGETHER WITH OUR BOYS AND THEY\'RE FAMILIES. WE\'LL PROBABLY GO TO THIS NEW DINER. THAT SHOULD BE A GOOD TIME.
THANKS AGAIN FOR YOUR COMMENTS. HOPE EVERYONE HAS A BLESSED EVENING. HUGS, CHRIS
RiseAndShineSunshine
RiseAndShineSunshine

Oh sounds so great !!! I am so happy for you !!! Congrats again , even if it is after the anniversary !!! I hope you have a blessed evening as well : )
Love you !
tgik
tgik

HELLO, THANK YOU. WE HAD A BLESSED DAY. AND WE ALSO ARE GOING TO BE GRANDPARENTS AGAIN. THE BABY\'S DUE IN NOVEMBER. TTHANKS AGAIN. HOPE EVERYONE IS HAVING A BLESSED NIGHT. HUGS, CHRIS
deleted_user
deleted_user

Sending belated Congradulations for both you & your husband on your 41st anniversary !!

take care gentle hugs
tgik
tgik

HELLO, THANK YOU FOR SENDING BELATED CONGRATS. WE HAD A PRETTY GOOD DAY. TWO OF THE COUPLE\'S WE HAVE BREAKFEAST WITH BROUGHT A CAKE OVER TO OUR HOUSE AND CELEBRATED WITH US. HOPE YOU HAVE A BLESSED NIGHT. HUGS, CHRIS