Tomorrow
December 27, 1997 Married
September 15, 2016 Receive email that she doesn't love me anymore
February 27, 2017 Divorce Final
Tomorrow is going to be very difficult. I pray I can see it as a beginning rather than an end but everytime I look at my daughters I falter. Court is at 8:30am.
After that, I'm spending the day with my folks. I'm scared to death. I have no idea what to expect from me, her or the judge.
I'll pray for peace, strength and courage to get thru tomorrow.
How did any of you get thru that day?
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I haven't gotten that far in the process, but i'll be thinking of you tomorrow and sending positive vibes your way. You can do this.
Thanks kasharoo.
Mine was straight forward that day, we both met
with our Own lawyers in a seperate little rooms. We
Went into courtroom ex had to attest to some stuff.
I had to say a few things and it was done. The two
Lawyers chatted outside the courtroom afterward.
We both signed the divorce papers and decree. It
Was registered and we waived any waiting period.
I had my papers and decree in my hand before i left.
The courtroom part was over in Five minutes.
It was a hard day, i was emotionally in a good place
after so much divorce care so i was okay and my
lawyer stayed close by and kept an eye on me.
Be loving and patient with yourself, i actually had
some Compassion for him he looked guilty as sin
and now he can do what ever he wants with his GF.
Its was still a hard day All the way around mentally,
Emotionally and spiritually. No hope anymore of a
changed Heart. It was really done and we were
divorced. I did not celebrate it, i think i just took
The morning off. HUGS
Thanks mirandac. It helps to know a bit more about what to expect.
Hope you made it through alright and that you're doing well
Thanks kasharoo. I made it and now hopefully will heal and grow. Thanks so much for checking in on me. Bless you.
No problem - Just remember that you're not alone!