Today was the day.

I finally told my fiance that I didn't think we'd be getting back together.
This was only over facebook mind you, so he hasn't found out yet. (and before you think I'm cruel, this is the only way i can contact him. :( )
I had a breakdown today whilst with one of my male friends and it made me realise that I'm just not ready for a relationship after what happened, with anybody. Especially not with a back-log of issues to resolve. It wouldn't be healthy for either of us.
So - hurray for being strong I guess! It's a good start.
He may try and talk me out of it, but I will try and enjoy the sense of accomplishment for now, upset as it makes me.