Today Sucked!
Today was one of the most painful days I have had since going through my breakup. I realized how little I meant to both my girlfirend and my ex friend. I guess I should have known it... just hate knowing it for sure!
Jim :(
Jim :(
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I\'m sorry, I know how hard it is to experience this. HUGS Karen
(((hugs))) acceptance is the hardest hurdle to over come. I thought Christmas was going to be much harder but I accepted it and that my life is different and will always be. I don\'t think you didn\'t matter to them I just think everyone loves differently. Maybe their love is different than ours and to be honest I\'m glad it is because that means we are on a different level and that\'s so much better. Think positive do not invest anymore energy into what was. Turn it to something else please. I hate to see anyone in that kind of pain. You have survived this far bring on 2012 it has got to be better. We are here for you.
I agree- acceptance is the hardest, but once you get there, things get much easier.
Keep your chin up, it really will get easier.
You have to find a new direction for your thoughts. A new normal for your life. I know it is so hard letting go of old thoughts and what ifs, but you just have to. And I know you miss her son and that will probably be the hardest hurdle you have to cross. So hard to give up trying to change what we can\'t control. Don\'t let them take up any more of your energy or space in your head. I know this is a double rejection you are feeling, so you have to put double the effort into you going forward. None of this is your fault and you know that. Just remember people get what they deserve and they deserve each other and you deserve much much better. Hugs.
Ppl like that only care for themselves. One day they will get tired of each other, and move on to something \"better\".....
In the meantime, you do have to realize that they never really loved you at all. That hurts ... believe me i know it hurts... I had to realize that my husband of 22 yrs never loved me either. Sure, he said he did, showed it sometimes. But in his heart he never did. Once, i got that.. I mean really got that in my head. I was able to move to the next step.
All these feelings you are having is normal... just part of the process.... Hang in there, the pain will go away. You, were not hurt over night, so you will not heal over night. One day at a time..... ((((((( HUGS)))))))
Thank you to all of you! I need to know I am not alone I think but truly would be lost without this support....
Jim
(((hugs)))
You will never be alone my friend
Thanks to all of you...
It means the world to me
Hugs =) I know how you feel! your not alone