To All My Wonderful Caring Friends

Thank you all for all your kind words, your hugs, your understanding.  The person that wrote the comment as far as I know has never lost a child, she is going through divorce.  That is painful, but there is life after divorce and I can say that since I am a divorced person.  Nothing in  life is easy.  But my feelings are that you should never tell anyone how they should be acting, or feeling.  I came to this site in search for love, caring and friendship and a way to express my pain and my thoughts and not be judged.  By all of my dear friends, you have done that for me.  I am sorry that only one has to bring you down to feeling as if I am just to forget my son.  I will never forget my son.  I am sorry she felt she needed to lash out at me.  I am sure she is having her own pain.  But not the pain of losing a child.  I have deleted her from my friends list because I am in enough pain and sorrow to have more thrown at me.
Just today we received an update on our wills.  I was reading them to my husband, we are to review them and go in and sign them.  Everything was fine and in order, till I got to the part: Kenneth Lee Westerfield, deceased.  That was an arrow shot right through my heart.  The tears came, I could not read another word.  All I could see was my sweet baby's name saying "deceased".  I guess that is the fact of this life that we who have lost our child has to deal with.  
Again, to each of you who took time to let me know your cared you are my dear friends and you know the pain I feel.  I  hope the person who wrote this to me never ever has to experience the pain we feel as mom's because our life is out of order.
The thing I feel is best to learn, if you have nothing nice to say, just say nothing.
God bless each of you today and my love goes to each of you.
Sandi