Tired of being sick and tired!!
I am very fed up with my life right now!! I am sick and tied of being sick and tired!! I am sick of being expected to be "on" all the time...from everyone!! I'm expected to keep track of everything and know where everything is even when I've told him to put things in the same spot so he doesn't lose things as often!! He expects me to remember everything he doesn't...and I don't know if it is age that is making him lose his memory or something else...I don't even know what!!
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I know how you feel. I\'m supposed to keep track of everyones schedule and get them to and from work, school, activities...and keep the house looking good. hard to do when everyone just lays stuff down and not where it should be. wish I could tell you it gets easier but after 22 years, nothing has changed
Yes, but have you ever questioned why you got married and wonder \" is there life out there\"? Outside of your family and your marriage , but have been too scared to want to find out, only to find out that you might have made the biggest mistake of your life, and that there isn\'t anything better out there, and that I threw away the one true love of my life...besides I love my husband too much to cheat on him (it\'s just not in my nature). Besides, I am too old to start from scratch again...unless he was to cheat on me.
Do you know what I mean?? Sorry if I am rambling...
I couldn\'t start over again. yes there are times when I think I would be better off without him but I had 3 kids with him...we have memories together and the older we get the easier life is getting. after all these years I\'ve adjusted that im not going to have things done my way unless I do them myself and I have to hope that things get done...there are days when he prefers the tv and I would prefer work being done
I know what you mean. I\'m sure many people feel that way from time to time...what life would be like if ___. I know I have thought that on many occasions...especially in regards to my marriage. Marriage is definately a challenge. I try to look at it as a growing experience. :) It will only make you stronger.
You should tell him to make a check list and carry it with him along with a schedule to make things easier on you. Set alarms too. I\'m sorry you\'re so stressed out. I will hope for a miracle for you so that you and your husband can be happy like you deserve to be.