Tips on Privacy and Anonymity
Fellow DS Members,
We started DailyStrength in 2006 with the idea that with support and help from regular people, anyone can overcome any challenge life may bring. And over these years our site has grown in terms of features and membership -- almost 500,000 strong now!
One of the challenges of building a site like DS is serving such a diverse membership. The DS community is young and old, male and female, living in all corners of the globe. Besides these obvious differences, DS members are also diverse when it comes to their attitudes toward privacy and anonymity. It's because of this that over the years we've added many features to help members have some privacy and anonymity while still being able to get the most out of DailyStrength. We wanted to take the space here to bring everyone up-to-date with our privacy features, how they work, and some tips for preserving your anonymity -- if that's what concerns you.
Before we begin, we must say that we have found that some of the most satisfied DS members are those that have used the site to share their stories, successes, fears, and doubts with the rest of us. It's amazing that when you can put yourself out there the most, you can get the most in return.
Privacy at DailyStrength
Privacy starts with understanding the difference between public content and profile content. When you are on DS you can post to a discussion, comment on a member's journal entry, comment on an expert's article -- these are all public content, like saying something in a crowd. We provide no privacy controls for public content. Then there is also profile content: your journals, photos, and profile information -- all of the content that shows up on your profile page. This profile content, that you create and maintain, can all be protected via our privacy features. The only exception here is your username and avatar since those are used to identify you on the site in areas like our discussion boards -- hence, your username and avatar are public.
For members who want to restrict access to some or all of their profile content, we offer the following features:
Journal Privacy - for each journal entry you can choose which group of users can view: everyone, just friends, or just me.
Photo Privacy - for each photo upload you can choose which user group can view: everyone, just friends, or just me.
Profile Privacy - you can choose which user group can view your profile page and all profile content: everyone, DS members, just friends.
The definition of each user group is as follows:
Everyone - all members and visitors to DailyStrengthÂ
DS Members - all signed-in DailyStrength members
Just Friends - only DailyStrength members on your friends list
Just Me - only youÂ
A Special Note About Google and Other Search Engines
One of the hottest privacy topics here concerns having the content you share with DS showing up in Google and other search engines. Profiles are not indexed by Google and other search engines. However, the content you post publicly (discussion posts, comments), is always available to Google and other search engines.
Specifically About Anonymity
Anonymity is a little different that privacy, and the two can easily be confused. If you want to be open and sharing, but don't want to 'link' your DS membership with your real-world self, you are looking to be anonymous. There are three very easy and simple steps to take if you want to maintain anonymity on DailyStrength:
1. Use a random username that doesn't include your name, location, age, or other distinguishable characteristic. If you are an existing member and want to change your username to something less identifying, make the request using our feedback form. Changing your username can take time (and sometimes may not be done), since we have to review all requests manually to deter abuse. And you can only change your username once.
2. Use a random photo as your avatar/profile photo. If you don't have a random photo, use one of our cool illustrated ones.
3. Don't post any personal information like your name, age, location, phone number, where you work, etc., or photos of yourself, family, or friends without privacy protection.
To Wrap Up
By using the right combination of privacy settings for yourself and being selective of the personal information you share, you should be able to find a level of privacy that makes you the most comfortable. That is what we strive for here at DailyStrength. If not, please let us know by filling out our feedback form.
Thanks much
TeamDS
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Good content. This needs to be posted somewhere else though, .. like maybe the HELP page.
yes, we will be posting this many places over time throughout the site. thanks
Is it possible to change your username?
jolleenee they just said it wld take time cause they do it manually, and can only be done once.
Thank you-you\'ve cleared up quite a bit of things that were botheing me.
Thanks for the info!
Cheers!
To KidAtHeart,
Here are some quick replies to some of the questions you raised. Thanks, Lars
1. The recent activity privacy setting only affects the \'Recent Activity\' module on your profile page. It does not affect other site member activity lists or feeds.
Generally, our content privacy features do not affect basic activity reporting. Most of these other member activity lists (found on our home page, support group pages, etc.) do not contain any content - just merely a statement like \"TeamDS wrote a journal\" or \"TeamDS gave KidAtHeart a hug\". Since there isn\'t any content displayed in these reports, we have not fully supported these in our privacy controls.
2. Comments on journal entries are somewhat public. Since the author of the journal has the ability to make his or her journal entry private or friends-only, it is really the author of the journal that controls whether or not the comments are viewable.
3. For individual content, a lock graphic is displayed along with a simple message stating that the content is either private or for friends only. With profile privacy, the same is true - it just looks a little different.
4. The \'Recent Activity\' lists on your signed-in home page can include a short snippets of content for certain activity types. For the most part, private content should not show up in this particular list on your signed-in home page. You specifically mentioned private journals, we will take a look at that.
5. \'Recent Activity\' and other member activity lists are one of the most common ways members come in contact with one another on DailyStrength. They are an important barometer of site activity and, we feel, a great way to get exposed to more members and content.
6. The drag-and-drop feature that is enabled by our chat bar simply makes the sharing of images that much easier. Anyone, without even using the drag-and-drop feature, can share an image on a web page with anyone else. We added this feature just to make that easier and also encourage more members to share the cool photos and other content they see on DailyStrength with their friends not already on the site. That viral action of sharing content is good for us as a social network and helps us grow.
Thanks DS, I feel so much better! I did not like seeing all 7000 of my posts here on Google. Cheers!
THANKS FOR HELPING ME TO KNOW MORE ABOUT PRIVACY. I FINALLY GOT IT. IT IS IMPORTANT FOR ME TO DO PRIVATE ONLY. IT DOES HELP ME WHO I CAN TO CHOOSE? IF THEY WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH ME. THE FIRST THING I WOULD DO IS.... I MUST READ THEIR PROFILE FIRST. SO I CAN GET AN IDEA WHO THEIR ARE ? WHO ARE THEIR FRIENDS WITH ? ARE MOST IMPORTANT FOR ME. IF I APPROVE THEM THEY WILL BE MY FRIEND.
TEAMDS,
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR TIME .
Thank you for the comment and for the site I am real happy I joined
Thanks for the info.
Well it still is good and privacy means so much to us. We at DS share our thoughts with others and ourselves. Thanks
In all honesty if you really wish to keep something private the only real way to do that is to never post it online.
This is why it is good when on a support site not to use the same username you use on other sites if you are sharing really private things like abuse, addiction etc.
Thanks for all of the positive comments friends. We will be posting more content like this around the site in the next few weeks to help folks get more informed and get more out of DS.
A couple of other questions I saw:
Yes, if you previously removed \'Doug\' as a friend, you aren\'t a \'TeamDS\' friend. If you want to be (and every new member is) just send in a friend request to \'TeamDS\'.
Google crawls our site at no particular time of the day or night. We usually get crawled twice a day, but there is no set schedule for this.
Thanks, Lars
All protections are good for those who need to be protected.
You are begging the question of what to do about the predatory criminals who continue to plague the site on weekends. And the bizarre disappearances of popular members who somehow violate your terms of service. Your assurances of member saftey and anonymity need to match the reality of the site. You are the administrators. You do not share most of what we hurting people go through every tweny four hours of our lives. A little informed action on your part, and not just automatic reaction according to some business formula will improve the experience of all of us, and yourselves, too. Some words for you: Mercy. Compassion. Forgiveness. Second and third chances. Open mindedness and open heartedness. Participation (there\'s a big one) and lastly, humility. And finally, God in me sees God in you. could it work in both directions? More will be revealed.