Time to move on.....
I have been here for a while now and it seems that I just don't fit in. I am not very good at giving advice and just as in real life I find it hard to meet people. I never know the right things to say. I am always the outsider looking in...wishing I could be that person that people want to get to know. Somebody interesting..somebodys friend. I watch people bond and friendships grow. Some people just have a way about them that people are drawn to them. I have never been that person and sadly will never be. I have always been shy and quiet and a bit of a loner....never had a lot of friends. Maybe its me...something I do maybe...I don't know.... I wish you all the best in your journeys and in all the life brings your way...you all deserve to be happy and to find that peace in life....
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Oh I am so sorry to hear this. Please stay and let others get to know you better. Big hugs to you
I wish you would reconsider staying.
You may not think you are good at giving advise but the things you have written have helped me. You were the first person who ask me to become a friend. You don\'t know what that meant to me at the time. I feel the same way about watching people bond and friendships grow. I don\'t feel shy but have been a loner, putting to much into my ex. I am not very good at expressing myself espeically in writting and I\'m afraid that leaves the impress that I have not appreciated you friendship. You have been able to express so many things I only wish I could and I don\'t think you realize how much that helps someone like me. You may not have thought you were giving advice but in a way were. You may not think so, but sharing your feelings, the good and bad, were the right things to say. I don\'t post or journal or chat, but I\'m out here and just knowing you were out there too, has helped me, I wish you would stay, from one outsider looking in to other. You do have a friend, I\'m just sorry if I was not the kind of friend you needed.
I hope you stay but if not, Please know that I will always hope and pray that YOU find the happiness and peace you so deserve.
I am sorry I haven\'t been there for you. I am also shy and my work hours do not permit me to be on as much as I would like to. As you know I get on and blow up once in a while and you and so many others get on and bring me back to reality. I know it is tough after so many years with your ex. It is a new life and a lot of bumps in the road. You are a strong and caring person and have a lot to offer. You have helped me more than you know. I wish you the best but I am selfish and hope you will stay.
I enjoyed exchanging hugs with you but you stopped keeping in touch. I am here for you if you want to talk. You are not a failure here, making friendships takes time and you can make them as well as anyone else. Please don\'t give up.
I am sorry to hear this. I agree that you may feel like you are not helping people, but you are. I am also shy and have not formed very many friendships. Friends are like flowers and it takes time for friendships to grow. I am thinking about you and hoping that you will stay. (((Hugs)))
I feel the same way, so you are not alone. I do however, sometimes feel grateful Im here because when Im really down, someone will leave an inspiring comment that I truly needed to hear. Dont go away, just take a break for a while, we will be here when you come back. Hugz!!!
I\'m sorry you feel out of place. Don\'t be so hard on yourself, not everyone can win a popularity contest! Just be kind and good things will come to you~Take Care.
Thank you for being there for me...I took a break and got it together a bit. I just couldn\'t leave, there are just too many people on here who I care so much about. Thank you for all your kind words..they have touched me greatly.