Time and healing

   Time is moving bye so fast and there is so much to be done to get ready to move. I am very excited about moving and getting new experieces in a new location. Hopefully being closer to my old friends and our family. I think getting out of the city that the affair took place in will help me not have trigger's so often and I will be busy doing new things and that it will help my marriage get to not a new place but a different place. I think that as life happens and new things come about it will put the affair more and more in the back of my mind. I think I can look at moving kind of like a fresh start for us. Even though we have done a lot of work both me and my wife since the affair. 
 A new location will be a refreshing and positive.
 Thinking positive and excitedly about the future for myself, for my wife, for our family, and for our marriage.