Tim's here
He arrived sometime between 2 & 3 Thursday afternoon. ----- Not sure when. He didn't come in the house for a while. He went for a walk and didn't come in until nearly dark.
We are not speaking. All I've said to him is one sentence in reference to food being on the stove. He hasn't said one single, solitary word to me.
I'm spending most of my time holed up in the spare bedroom with my iPad and a few good books. If he wants to be alon, I'll leave him alone.
Yeah, he can go do his mission work and tell everyone else how to live right. He that can does. He that can't tells everyone else how.
He can go to church tomorow all by himself. I have the flu. Even if I felt well, I wouldn't go to church and sit beside Tim.
We are not speaking. All I've said to him is one sentence in reference to food being on the stove. He hasn't said one single, solitary word to me.
I'm spending most of my time holed up in the spare bedroom with my iPad and a few good books. If he wants to be alon, I'll leave him alone.
Yeah, he can go do his mission work and tell everyone else how to live right. He that can does. He that can't tells everyone else how.
He can go to church tomorow all by himself. I have the flu. Even if I felt well, I wouldn't go to church and sit beside Tim.
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Yeah, I agree with not participating in the lie that everything is OK. You should find a new church and let him go on being the blind man leading the blind. Wow. I\'m so sorry it\'s come to this. We love you.
What a miserable man he is. Stay in your room and encourage him to leave, so you can LEAVE your room and be in your house in peace.
This whole thing he is calling his \"life\" and his \"Calling\" is one big charade!! People aren\'t stupid. He will be found out and exposed for the cruel man he is, and the Lord will deal with him. Remember, vengeance is HIS. Leave it there.
I\'m so sorry you are going through this, Nancy. Literally, it makes me sick!
Oh Nancy you poor honey.All the emotional stress has made you sick with the flu for sure.It must all be so horrible being in the house with Tim and not resolving anything.I don\'t really know anything about Tim so I don\'t want to judge him.I am not siding with him, but he may still change and have realizations about his mistakes.He may also grow more spiritually and possibly become a more genuine church pastor in the future.Of course I do not support his insensitive and negligent behavior towards you as a husband and I really do feel for you right now.You know there is an old saying that \" A leopard never changes its spots\".Well that only applies to animals.Human beings have a higher level of consciousness and can certainly change their spots, have valuable realizations from their mistakes, and advance spiritually. I hope this happens with Tim.That he becomes aware of the fact that he needs to change.If he doesn\'t obviously his plan will collapse.Somehow the silence needs to break and some communication has to happen . It\'s not healthy ,certainly very detrimental to your health Nancy.You are probably suffering more than him right now because you are already in a weakened state.I feel quite worried about you.However only you and Tim can resolve this .It\'s sad that you are having to go through all of this .Stay strong and rest up my friend.You know it will change soon. Hopefully there will be some resolve before Christmas so there will be some peace for you.Love to you xo
In the middlle of all this storm you still devote yourself to him by feeding him.Therefore you are still attached and really hurting.So sorry xo