Thursday is D day
Tomorrow my life as I know it, will change forever. Going to court at around 1 pm.
I went to a Catholic school for the first 8 years of my life and I remember the nuns preaching about how marriage is a lifetime commitment and that divorce was a sin.
I ended up marrying someone who I never thought would ever cheat on me, her morals seemed to be so strong at the time!
Ahh well, it happens cause it did to me.
Please pray for me today, cause if things don't turn out good............Life will have no meaning :(
I went to a Catholic school for the first 8 years of my life and I remember the nuns preaching about how marriage is a lifetime commitment and that divorce was a sin.
I ended up marrying someone who I never thought would ever cheat on me, her morals seemed to be so strong at the time!
Ahh well, it happens cause it did to me.
Please pray for me today, cause if things don't turn out good............Life will have no meaning :(
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Bob, NONE of us ever thought our spouses would cheat on us. Unfortunately, things aren\'t always what they seem and we have all been disappointed. But this is not YOUR sin...she is the one who precipitated the divorce and you are just doing what you have to do.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Trust me when I tell you that God has something better in mind for you! Keep believing in that and you will come out of this ok.
Big squeezy hugs to you.
I agree with CGK--this is not your sin, but her\'s. I will keep you in my thoughts during your day in court tomorrow.
Hugs!
My prayers are with you too, Bob!
I married someone I went to school with and our parents socialized at the Country Club for years, etc. I never thought he would be a drinker and fool around!! I do not regret being divorced - who isn\'t?
Your life will be different - it will be what you make it. I am excited about each day - my friends are a riot. Make new friends and live.
Dear Bob-Good luck for tomorrow-
Thank God for a new start!
My prayers go with you! Stand tall and proud...you are strong and you will go on and build a new life.
SHE is divorcing YOU. The \"sin\" is in re-marrying outside the church, not the divorce. Call the Archdioces, begin the annulment process. I did it. You fill out forms, you have an interview, it goes to Rome and pretty much you\'re a shoe-in with the crap that\'s been going on in your life. Then you are free to re-marry. I will pray for you, I know divorce is emotionally difficult - even when you really, really want out.
Bob - I\'m sorry that your going through this. Kathi\'s right you didn\'t create this, she did and I love Ellzeena\'s idea of annulment. Wonder if it costs anything???
Bobby- You have done nothing wrong, in fact, you have been so accomodating to her infidelity because they are both in poor health. You will definitely reap the rewards in the end by finding Ms. Wonderful who will be your friend and companion. You are too sweet to not be able to find who will treat you with the respect you deserve. Love you my dear friend. Hugs
It\'s 6pm 8/16/12 Check in with us. Let us know how it went!
Dear Bob- Please let us know how things are going? I really hope you are feeling better now the court appearance is behind you.
love dinah xxxxx
Bobby, so nice to hear from you, you sounded sad, as expected, but there is a whole new world out there waiting for someone just like you! I was happiest to hear you were able to play your guitar, even if it made you sad. I LOVE that song. You will have to play it for all of us who have been keeping track of your thumb progress. Love you my dearest friend forever, hugs.
Bob i know this day must have been soo hard for you but its a new start.. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and who is loyal to you. Please let me know how you made out and how you are feeling.. hugs
bob see loads of supporters here...keep the plug in the jug bill
I know that your ears will be ringing and your heart will be filled with love from all of us, including me, praying for you, my Friend. God bless you.
I know how you must be feeling; everyone is different, but when you get shocked, you know you feel bad.....get better no matter what, please - for your own sake? God keep you in His loving and capable Hands.
Peace and Love,
Franciann