Thursday-August,27,2015
Hello all. My daughter is depressed. Her boyfriend came up to my room today saying she was crying and upset. I went down to talk to her.
She is stressed and needs a vacation. So she took her son and went over to her boyfriend's place. She was mad at me, saying I don't do anything. Well, it is her son and her situation. She is his mother so she needs to get up with him and do for him.
I had guardianship of her daughter and did all I could for her.90's for a dozen years. I am here to help her where I can. I can't get around very well so she does do most of the work around. All of it really.
Most of the time she fine but I think she is tired from not getting much sleep and having to get my GS up at 5:30a. so he can catch the bus by 6:20a. Then instead of her getting some rest she has her BF over and they go do something. So she isn't sleeping. Also, her meds doc upped her anti-depressant and whenever they mess with her meds she goes manic. I feel panic stricken again and very hurt by her attitude toward me. She and I were getting along so well.
I hate my life right now. I have no one to turn to around here. I have isolated myself and that is my own fault.
I kept trying to get her to rest and she wouldn't do it. So, now we all pay the price.
Guess I will go play some game and then try to sleep. Too hot to sleep but I will try.
Hope all of you are enjoying the last bit of summer and all is well with you.
Take care,
Eve
She is stressed and needs a vacation. So she took her son and went over to her boyfriend's place. She was mad at me, saying I don't do anything. Well, it is her son and her situation. She is his mother so she needs to get up with him and do for him.
I had guardianship of her daughter and did all I could for her.90's for a dozen years. I am here to help her where I can. I can't get around very well so she does do most of the work around. All of it really.
Most of the time she fine but I think she is tired from not getting much sleep and having to get my GS up at 5:30a. so he can catch the bus by 6:20a. Then instead of her getting some rest she has her BF over and they go do something. So she isn't sleeping. Also, her meds doc upped her anti-depressant and whenever they mess with her meds she goes manic. I feel panic stricken again and very hurt by her attitude toward me. She and I were getting along so well.
I hate my life right now. I have no one to turn to around here. I have isolated myself and that is my own fault.
I kept trying to get her to rest and she wouldn't do it. So, now we all pay the price.
Guess I will go play some game and then try to sleep. Too hot to sleep but I will try.
Hope all of you are enjoying the last bit of summer and all is well with you.
Take care,
Eve
Replies
I\'m so sorry that you are going through all this with your daughter, but it sounds like it is all her own fault. If she is going to give up her sleep to be with her BF than of course she is always going to be tired and it\'s not your responsibility to take care of your GS. You took care of your kids now it\'s her turn to take care of her\'s.
I\'m sorry that you feel so lonely and don\'t have anyone to turn too, will keep you and your situation in my thoughts and prayers.
Great big hugs for you
Jean
I not only took care of my children but also had guardianship of one of hers and she was pissed because I didn\'t take both. She\'s had three kids. When does it stop? I\'m here to help her, not do it for her. Thanks for your input. It\'s always appreciated.