this whole experience

I was just thinking about how this entire horrific experience rooted from the child molestation has stunted (prevent the growth of; to stunt a child) my growth.  As I heal, I mature, I become wiser, stronger, confident, and I am able to feel safe in life.  I am happier.   A friend of mine is going through some stuff.  She said she felt humiliation in her right now. She felt ashamed.  I thought alot about her pain and her term humiliation.  Humilialed. Humility.  I thought about the Bible.  I looked humility up in refernce to the Bible.  I too felt humiliation for a great deal of my life - the trauma from the molestation.  Humiliation is a good thing.  It humbles us.  It helps us to think about how we allow stuff to get to us/touch us and why did/does it affect us in such away.  What is missing from our lives and how can we get it back.  We fall and then we have to get up.  Well, God shows us the way to get up.  God humiliated himself by coming down to earth in human form - Jesus Christ.  He stepped down from his Divine form.  He humbled himself as Jesus.  People picked on him.  He would always turn a cheek.  God continues the humiliation by allowing himself to be crucified.  He died and rose to Heaven.  Fell fron Heaven and Rose back to Heaven. We fall and we have to get back up, and in between we should learn. It isn't easy - Life.  Enjoy it while it last.