This time really getting to the bottom of it?
So it happened aging with the messages to other women this time it was just the one he didn't know but i was reading it all on Facebook as it was being said. he kinda danced around talking about things to her but she came right out with it any was talking about meeting and everything he kept telling her he didn't think it could happen but she kept it up. granted he wasn't an angel in all of it but still. i told him i seen it all we had our big fight and he told me he wanted to kill him self had the gun in the back of the car and was going to by bullets. i didn really know what hurt more the messages or the face he would want to just leave me like that all alone with a 2 year old and being 8 month pregnant. Once i talked him out of it and we had honestly one of the most honest and open talks we have had in a ling time she them tried to write him again mind you she is married and my husband works with her husband. needless to say we canceled our plans to hang out with them but her husband still didn't know. when she tried talking to her again he told he I'm sorry it can't happen i love my family and can't do it my wife know she seen it all. she then starts to flip out and says your dead then goes and tells her husband. over text my husband told him sorry and said what he could but the guy didn't want to hear it but who can blames him. then she goes on to start writing me saying how do you know it didn't already happened the day you worked late and your a psycho. just on and on saying your husband doesn't want to be with you do you really think he wants some 9 month pregnant chick. i kept my cool the best i could didn't say anything hateful and just said I'm trying to fix my life and things with me i tried being nothing but a nice person and this is what you do and how you at to me goes to show who is the bigger person. and to add to it this is all after he told he no it couldn't really happen. but now I'm stuck with all this on my shoulders with only 6 weeks to go in my pregnancy. i just really need some kind of support right now. me and my husband are gonna try i know people will think its dumb or that i am for staying but i can't just put the past 5 years of starting my life in the trash.
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This sounds like a terrible story :( nothing worse than knowing you arent the only woman your husband is thinking about. has he been unfaithful in the past?
Only with messages like Facebook and maybe text and it was a while back its like we are in this rut I get depressed and he feels like im ignoring him and down want him any more.
Whoa that\'s a lot going on right there. Plus while you\'re pregnant you don\'t need all that stress. But at least you were being the bigger person while people had the nerve to make a scene. You don\'t deserve that. It sounds like a lose lose with your relationship but hopefully you\'ll build your relationship back up and this will be behind you both.
yeah its really not fun right more. and i can only hope it gets built back up i just have a really really big fear.it it does its just gonna be tore back down and i\'m not to sure i can\'t handle that.